I cried and cried till the time these thoughts changed my point of view. Crying is good at times. It makes you feel better. But, only 'at times'. Otherwise it is nothing but a sign of defeat.When things go wrong and nothing is left to you, nothing that you can do; you are sad, broken, frustrated and angry. It is this anger that has the power to tell your fate, "Come what may, I am going to face it all bravely. Not just face it but win over you. I am going to have all the patience and strength to survive all your blows and emerge victorious at the end".
When you cry, this very anger is washed off with those tears. If you smile instead, you see your own fate smiling back at you. What they say is true indeed, 'A robbed that smiles, steals something from the thief.'
